I love Halloween. It is such a fun night for parents and kids alike, and parents who act like kids! I am often asked at what age is it safe for my child to trick-or-treat alone. I would love to give you an exact answer, but there is none. Sometime during the middle school years is when most children have the necessary tools to keep themselves safe. It is probably right around this same time that they might not want to go trick-or-treating anymore!
If you are going to let your child trick-or-treat without you, one of the first things parents need to do is have a conversation with your child and ask them what rules they are going to follow to keep safe (buddy system, stop, look and listen, never enter stranger’s house or car, etc). It is also important to have a clear set of expectations. Have a set neighborhood they will be staying in (preferably your own), specific time frame and check-in times.
Try baby steps… Perhaps you might want to shadow your son or daughter’s group the first time they venture out without you. Talk with the parents of your child’s friends. I am sure you are not the only parent whose child wants to go out without you. Perhaps you could volunteer your house to host an after trick-or-treating get together.
Parents should also know where registered sex offenders live (check Naperville website) to avoid placing your child in an unsafe situation.
The City of Naperville has no ordinance determining Halloween hours for children, but it is suggested that children are not out past 8PM. It is important to remember the tricks and treats of playing it safe, so please visit our web site at www.naperville.il.us for more important Halloween safety tips.
Until next month… Stay Aware & Stay Safe.
